{"id":3462,"date":"2024-11-29T13:53:43","date_gmt":"2024-11-29T13:53:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/?p=3462"},"modified":"2024-12-02T09:02:13","modified_gmt":"2024-12-02T09:02:13","slug":"mergaites-nuo-6-eriu-metu-ima-jaustis-maziau-protingos-negu-berniukai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/mergaites-nuo-6-eriu-metu-ima-jaustis-maziau-protingos-negu-berniukai\/","title":{"rendered":"Mergait\u0117s nuo 6-eri\u0173 met\u0173 ima jaustis ma\u017eiau protingos negu berniukai!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ar \u017einojote, kad mergait\u0117s jau nuo \u0161e\u0161eri\u0173 met\u0173 pradeda manyti, jog berniukai yra protingesni u\u017e jas? \u0160is faktas, aptartas <a href=\"https:\/\/www.science.org\/doi\/pdf\/10.1126\/science.aah6524?utm_source=chatgpt.com\"><span class=\"s3\">Science<\/span><span class=\"s4\"> \u017eurnale publikuotame tyrime<\/span><\/a>, kvie\u010diasusim\u0105styti, kaip anksti vaik\u0173 mintyse \u012fsitvirtina stereotipai, kurie gali tur\u0117ti ilgalaik\u012f poveik\u012f j\u0173 savivertei, pasitik\u0117jimui savimi ir galimybei siekti savo svajoni\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Da\u017enai mergait\u0117s yra linkusios neabejoti savo geb\u0117jimais tol, kol stereotipai apie \u201eberniuk\u0173 logik\u0105\u201c ar \u201emergai\u010di\u0173 emocijas\u201c ne\u012fsikuria j\u0173 pasaulio supratime. Kaip tai vyksta? Atsakymas slypi aplinkoje \u2013 \u017eaisluose, knygose, filmuose, net suaugusi\u0173j\u0173 pokalbiuose, kur nety\u010dia, bet nuolatos kartojama, kad tam tikros savyb\u0117s ar profesijos yra \u201evyri\u0161kos\u201c arba \u201emoteri\u0161kos\u201c. Mergait\u0117s stebi ir sugeria \u0161ias \u017einutes, prad\u0117damos riboti savo pa\u010di\u0173 galimybi\u0173 ribas.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201eMergai\u010di\u0173 balsai yra svarb\u016bs\u201c \u2013 tai paskutini\u0173 keli\u0173 de\u0161imtme\u010di\u0173 ly\u010di\u0173 lygyb\u0117s priedainis. Ta\u010diau balsas yra daugiau nei tik garsas; tai savirai\u0161ka, savivert\u0117, dr\u0105sa u\u017eduoti klausimus ir reik\u0161ti nuomon\u0119. Deja, jei jau vaikyst\u0117je mergait\u0117 i\u0161moksta \u201esusitraukti\u201c ir u\u017eleisti viet\u0105 berniukui, \u0161is \u012fprotis da\u017enai persikelia ir \u012f suaugusi\u0173j\u0173 gyvenim\u0105. Daug mergai\u010di\u0173 tampa tyliomis steb\u0117tojomis pasaulyje, kuriame joms tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti tiek pat vietos, kiek ir berniukams.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A\u0161 dirbu universitete d\u0117stytoja. Pastebiu, kad kuomet auditorijoje yra vaikin\u0173 \u2013 didel\u0117 mergin\u0173 dalis yra linkusios u\u017eleisti kalb\u0117jimo erdv\u0119 vaikinams. Po to, kai \u0161i\u0105 tendencij\u0105 \u012fvardiju garsiai ir pakvie\u010diu diskusijai, kod\u0117l taip yra \u2013 \u012fprastai auditorijoje merginos ima da\u017eniau ir dr\u0105siau reik\u0161ti mintis. Tai stiprina ir j\u0173 savivert\u0119, ir praturtina auditorijos diskusij\u0105 skirtingomis pozicijomis.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kaip matyti &#8211; situacija turi i\u0161eit\u012f. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.frontiersin.org\/journals\/psychology\/articles\/10.3389\/fpsyg.2021.641695\/full?utm_source=chatgpt.com\"><span class=\"s4\">Ugdymas veikia! <\/span><span class=\"s4\">Stereotipai gali b\u016bti i\u0161\u0161ifruoti, aptarti ir pakeisti<\/span><\/a>, jei tik prad\u0117sime kalb\u0117ti apie juos su vaikais jau ankstyvame am\u017eiuje. Pavyzd\u017eiui, kod\u0117l \u017eaislai negal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti <span class=\"s5\">bely\u010diais<\/span>? T.y., kad to norintys berniukai gal\u0117t\u0173 be baim\u0117s \u017eaisti su l\u0117l\u0117mis, o mergait\u0117s neb\u016bt\u0173 atkalbin\u0117jamos nuo karstymosi med\u017eiuose? Kod\u0117l berniukus mokome neverkti arba vaikinams leid\u017eiame verkti tik slap\u010dia, kai niekas nemato. Paraleliaimergaites skatiname b\u016bti paslaugiomis nepaisant asmeninio komforto ir intereso? Kiekviena pokalbi\u0173 tema, kiekviena knyga ar filmas, kiekviena pamoka kur i\u0161keliamas ly\u010di\u0173 stereotip\u0173 klausimas, yra \u017eingsnis \u012f priek\u012f. Tai galimyb\u0117 vaikams suprasti, kad j\u0173 talentai ir geb\u0117jimai neturi b\u016bti ribojami d\u0117l j\u0173 lyties.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kalb\u0117dami apie mergai\u010di\u0173 balsus, kalbame apie j\u0173 ateit\u012f. Tai apie mergait\u0119, kuri dr\u0105siai i\u0161kelia rank\u0105 matematikos pamokoje. Apie mergin\u0105, kuri dr\u0105siai moka pasakyti \u201cne\u201d. Apie jaun\u0105 moter\u012f, kuri pasirenka informacini\u0173 technologij\u0173 studijas (jeigu tik j\u0173 nori) nepaisant to, kad \u0161ioje srityje daugiau vyr\u0173. Galiausiai \u2013 tai apie visuomen\u0119, kurioje vis\u0173 balsai yra girdimi ir gerbiami. Apie visuomen\u0119, kurioje balsas neturi i\u0161 anksto para\u0161yti scenarijaus, k\u0105 ir kaip jam der\u0117t\u0173 i\u0161tarti.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tod\u0117l mes, suaugusieji, turime prisiimti atsakomyb\u0119. Turime pasteb\u0117ti savo pa\u010di\u0173 stereotipus ir s\u0105moningai rinktis kitokius \u017eod\u017eius bei veiksmus. Turime leisti mergait\u0117ms b\u016bti stiprioms, dr\u0105sioms, ambicingoms. Paraleliai turime padaryti daugiau erdv\u0117s ir berniuk\u0173 jautrumui! Ir turime kurti pasaul\u012f, kuriame mergait\u0117ms niekada nereik\u0117t\u0173 suabejoti savo verte vien tod\u0117l, kad j\u0173 balsas \u201cmergaiti\u0161kas\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>*<em>Straipsnis parengtas Akvil\u0117s Giniotos &#8211; lyti\u0161kumo ugdytoja, VU Ugdymo moksl\u0173 instituto doktorant\u0117.<br \/>\nStraipsnis yra dalis projekto &#8222;Empowering Echoes&#8221;, kuris vykdomas kartu su US-LT Alumni Association<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3472\" src=\"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/467404696_551553630992351_1712230986658915351_n-removebg-preview-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/467404696_551553630992351_1712230986658915351_n-removebg-preview-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/467404696_551553630992351_1712230986658915351_n-removebg-preview-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/467404696_551553630992351_1712230986658915351_n-removebg-preview.png 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ar \u017einojote, kad mergait\u0117s jau nuo \u0161e\u0161eri\u0173 met\u0173 pradeda manyti, jog berniukai yra protingesni u\u017e jas? \u0160is faktas, aptartas Science \u017eurnale publikuotame tyrime, kvie\u010diasusim\u0105styti, kaip anksti vaik\u0173 mintyse \u012fsitvirtina stereotipai, kurie gali tur\u0117ti ilgalaik\u012f poveik\u012f j\u0173 savivertei, pasitik\u0117jimui savimi ir galimybei siekti savo svajoni\u0173. &nbsp; Da\u017enai mergait\u0117s yra linkusios neabejoti savo geb\u0117jimais tol, kol stereotipai [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3463,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"disabled","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pokalbiai-ir-straipsniai"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3462"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3462\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3473,"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3462\/revisions\/3473"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivairovesnamai.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}